But in many cases, some people resent their friends because of some unsatisfactory things. This will not only destroy the physical relationship between you, but also the friendship. Although it's exciting to have a FWB relationship, things don't always develop as we imagine. Generally speaking, a FWB relationship is full of variables. If you want stability, you'd better stay away from such NSA relationships. Here are some reasons.
1. Things have been changing.
Undoubtedly, at the beginning of a casual encounters relationship, both of them had a similar idea: to seek sexual pleasure from each other and then make no emotional commitment. However, as time goes on, things will change. Maybe your friend still wants to keep this relationship without commitment, but damn it, you're in love with him. At this time, your friend's many actions will continue to torment you, for example, he will date another person, he will not return your message and telephone, when you are sad, he will not comfort you and so on.
2. This relationship will end.
Few FWB relationships can last long. First of all, you are not in a formal relationship, or you have your own fixed partners. Of course, you also have different life plans. If your goals and future residences are not in the same place, the relationship will soon end. Secondly, when one person has sex with another for a long time, the initial sexual attraction decreases considerably. At this point, if there's another new choice around you, the relationship will automatically go to extinction.
3. They flirt with others.
Because you are friends, you may wander outside your bedroom, which means you will inevitably see them flirting with others. Although this is not a problem for some people, it can also cause jealousy for others, even if you logically know that you are not monogamous.
4. It will change the dynamics of your group of friends.
That's not to say you should worry about what your friends think of you, but sleeping with one of your friends will undoubtedly change the way people in your group communicate. Maybe not all of your friends will be satisfied with your arrangement, even if you try to avoid flirting with each other in public.
5. It can cause resentment and affect your friendship.
Finally, it's important to consider whether this person is the one you want to end your friendship with. If you are an ordinary acquaintance and may become a beneficial friend, then this is acceptable. But what if you're an old friend with a lot of history? That friendship may not be worth the risk of a few nights.